The importance of a connection has recently become increasingly evident in telecom companies. Going beyond that, a relationship, a love affair is the sweetest experience of our lives. But after a romantic relationship, we have to deal with unexpected pressures. Let's see how to reduce them.
1. Do not induce external stress!
We have more than just family life. There is a lot more like office life, social life. In all of that, our minds become stressed. After all, we can't completely eliminate working stress when we've come home like we took off our slippers. But if we can keep those external stresses as far away as possible, it will be quite good for the health of our relationship.
2. Let's get in the other person's shoes, not the foot!
In a relationship, we sometimes ask, "Is he so stupid?" Think. But we often do not try to understand the other person's situation. In a relationship, it's important to get used to thinking things from his side, because he's not just another robot. Strauss is coming to him too. He gets angry too. He also has a very busy lifestyle. So it's worth it if we can think of his whereabouts with that.
3. Let's use instead of me
This is not to say that we should both brush our teeth with the same toothbrush. As a romantic relationship progresses, it is better for both of you to have the same goals. The more we use the term and the idea in future planning, dreams, leisure, etc., the less stressful situations will occur. Let's think about the next long weekend. What happens if you work that weekend without consulting the other person? Then if he has a lot of work to do then you have to change all those things. Therefore, instead of always making decisions and informing the other, both parties should talk and make decisions at the level of "we".
4. Identify the language of stress
Some people do not like to address each other with words like baby, patio, life, object. And there are those who often address the other with insulting words like you, Aise, Oi, Ai. So when you make love, it would be nice if you could use words that increase that love. And one of the places where we can catch the fact that our stress has increased is the use of our words. If the language is broken, the tone goes up and we go into valet mode, we need to understand that we are in a stress mess.
5. Let the screen down
When you get home, one of the two is on the phone or on the TV. Either on the laptop. So, more and more people are falling in love with digital screens and on the one hand they are increasing the stress on our minds. On the other hand, there is less focus on the other. When you go to a place to make love and talk a little and both of you turn around and hang on to the phones, then love is like a hindrance to the life of the phone. So it is better to control the connection with your phone during a connection.
6. Strengthen communication
If you do not talk to him about a problem, he will not know what you are talking about. So the other person may not understand you. Therefore, “Why should he have them? We need to talk to each other about our problems and issues without having preconceived notions. Maybe he has no relevant answer but he will then realize that you are in a problem.
7. Let the priest not reign!
When a relationship develops, our friends get directly involved. Relatives get involved. Whatever it is, in the end you are with him. You are the one who has the strongest influence on his relationship. So even if you take advice from others, you do not have to implement all of them. Also, it is not good to hire too many advisors. Because then we feel like we are in a house that is not ours.
No one can maintain a relationship without complete stress. But it is worth trying to manage the stress before the weight becomes unpleasant. So we always like to hear, see, and say that the other person's wrong relationship is causing the relationship to break down. But our mistakes, as well as ours, increase the stress on the relationship. So we think these tips will be very important for you to avoid stress.