If we're old enough to have sex now, if we're physically fit, if our body parts were working well, if we're lustful about God, if we're sexually aroused when we saw a girl we loved, it's not wrong. Not a problem either. But there is a point. Especially in a country like Sri Lanka where such thoughts have arisen many people have nothing to do beyond that. Keep that in mind. Or you just have to take it into your own hands and take it at a later time. Now, for that reason, men in Sri Lanka often invite someone they want to have sex with, rather than invite them to have sex, and marry them. There are a number of practical and emotional issues involved in doing so. We will talk about them later in the day. Before that, let's see how we can invite someone with whom we have only sexual attraction!
1. Get to know
No matter how much we are attracted to someone, if we really want to go into something like a physical relationship, it must be said that mere sexual attraction is not enough. The safest thing is to try to figure out who you are attracted to. Of course, these things do not apply much to a one night stand type relationship. But don't forget, the dating culture in the West is not the same in Asian countries. That's why it's good to know, to some extent, what kind of person we are attracted to. If necessary, it can be done through conversation.
2. Build some kind of relationship
Here this is very important. This is a major point where women and men are completely different from each other. Even if we just meet a woman in a club, no matter how polite we are, if we have a one-off sex invitation, we can look very bad. So the first thing to consider is whether the person you are attracted to is of a suitable age to have sex. Then build some kind of friendly relationship with him. Women like to take it with a little emotional level connection, without rushing to bed all at once. In other words, they should try to think beyond the physical attraction they feel. But then it is their skill
3. Show that you are attracted
When we have a good relationship with someone, it can also be a friendship. But when we make friends with someone we are sexually attracted to, we end up staying in the friendship zone. That's why it's so good to show that you are clearly attracted to that person. This means that saying "You look so hot" at the beginning is less likely to work. But saying something like, "I like yours" instead is not offensive.
When you realize that you have developed a level of conversation with the person you are attracted to, you should gradually start flirting.
4. Do not lie
Here this point is very important. This is what we said when we started. Let's say we are sexually attracted to someone. We like to have sex with him. I would like to be a good friend if I have the ability. But we have no desire to start a relationship or get married to that person. If so, never, ever put love or wedding invitations up front and try to get sex. Do not lie and do not try to deceive that person. Communicate clearly what your intentions are, even if it is not like being beaten with a stick. The same goes for friends with benefits. The same goes for One Night Stand. If he does not like such a thing, accept that reluctance politely like a gentleman and leave. Otherwise, having sex without lying is not only ugly, it is not good for anyone.
5. Allow yourself to make the right decision
Next, this point is also very important. If we are sexually attracted to someone and he seems to like us too, there are things to think about before we go straight out of bed. We have said one of them before. Are we old enough to make the individual decision to choose the person we are attracted to for sex? If he's under 16, he's like us, but he can not make that decision. And let's just say he's intoxicated and unable to make his own decisions. If so, it's wrong to take things to bed. The right thing to do is to take him to sex only if we can make the right decision with his right mind.
6. Likes and dislikes
If we find that someone we are sexually attracted to also likes us, a good point is to take the conversation to the side of how both of you like to have sex and what you like to do. But remember, we need to get to this point only if it is clear that the person we are attracted to has some interest in us as well. Or we may be scared to do any of these.
Here we can systematically talk about what we expect in sex life. About the things we love to do. About the things we like to do for the other person in bed. About our fantasy. But one thing to keep in mind. If this is a sex wrestling talk, the story could end there. So my size is awkward, so if I go to bed, I'm not going to give a girl talk like this.
7. Work as a sensitive person
This is the last and most important thing. We have to work as a gentleman all this time. That means we should not treat this other person we are attracted to as a sex object. As a woman. We need to respect his feelings, his independence, his tastes and his opinion. Going to bed with him means that we need to have it as a similar, beautiful experience between two people, rather than as a wake-up call.
Now with this set of instructions given there is a very important point that has not been read. That is what honor is all about. We are dealing with a human being just like us. That is why, even after the completion of the relevant task, that honor should be maintained. Or we're going to be that cheap, non - animal dial, not a human. That too must be kept in mind.